NaDiR

continuation of "Rise & Shine...Not Rise & Whine"

So…they say sometimes misery is good for you…it is motivation in disguise…I know because I used mine to dig myself out of my nadir…I had my resume prepared but countless hours of networking, job search and internet research laid ahead. I have to admit looking for a job is teeeeedious…it is practically a full-time job of its own. For at least one month I received zilch responses…as if I was completely non-existent to the outside world…no one was responding to me…it was incredibly frustrating…irateness grew…here I was seeking motivation to change my life instead I was getting discouraged by the minute…it was at that moment I decided to do the inevitable...I decided I would consider moving to New York to find my next dream Market Research job…which meant I was actually ready to cut the cord…yes I’m one of those who still live with my parents…I love my family and I love coming home to them every night but I knew I needed to venture out to seek a better life. So I began to send my resume to companies in New York. In no time I started getting phone calls, emails, leading up to phone interviews resulting in face-to-face interviews. I was in heaven!!! Even though I had no clue how I would go about starting a new life in New York, part of me knew it would come to me in time…I had friends I could rely on for support if I needed…you see I believe in signs…I believe that’s how sometimes God speaks to you…God or your fate…and I saw the sign…and I went towards it! In August, I arrived in New York City for three possible interviews…in a nutshell, my first interview which was at my top-of-the-list company Nielsen Online turned out to be nostalgic…frightening…ODD people…I swear I have not experienced such un-professionalism in an interview before…girls were downright rude…egotistical…bunch of fifteen year olds who rose to fame a little too hastily…it was like being a victim of a good cop/bad cop situation where the good cop stared at the ground without uttering a single word while the bad cop interrogated the bejesus out of me…so you know that didn’t go anywhere. The second company I interviewed with suffered a 200-person lay-off the day before my interview was set…go figure…and my third interviewer scared the hell out of me…again…twice in a row!!! Am I really that fragile…or inexperienced??? So after my 8th day in NYC, I was burnt out, back to square one with no potential…then the amazing happened…my phone rang and this Corporate Recruiter with a company in Houston gave me hope…to come back home and give his company a chance. I arrived in Houston on Friday, interviewed with his company Friday evening and had the offer in my hands the following Friday, exactly a week later!!! At that moment outside Café Express, I realized it couldn’t be any better for me!!! I have my dream Market Research job at a fabulous company, earning the money I desire, and working with a team I feel comfortable with. You see I gave NYC a shot but while I was there, I missed my family and my friends…I missed my life…I knew when the time came, I could survive there but that meant starting a new life with new people, something I’m not too fond of… yet I knew I had to be in NYC for a purpose…each interview I participated in polished and prepared me more for my next …and by the time I interviewed at my new job I was a Pro!!! But not only that, I found out how important it is for me to spend the time I have right now with my family and friends…if I don’t have to then why should I move away from them… if anything life has taught me in the last couple of months is never give up hope, aim for your dream, put your best effort and let good things come to you and you’ll see where change was needed in life for not everything in life is broken…some things in life are truly blessings in disguise…

signed: Thinker-Bell